The True Nature of Time and the End of Suffering
Do you want to know something strange? We never see the world as it truly is. Whenever we look at the world, we see it through the filters of our mind - the ego - and the concepts that it creates. This is why no two persons can look at one thing or person and have the same reaction.
I have read before: To her lover, a beautiful woman is temptation. To a monk, a distraction. To a mosquito, dinner.
Many of these concepts are so deeply ingrained in us that we don’t even know they are operating. And yet once we see things as they truly are - without these filters - that would be the moment we end all of our suffering. Some would even call this state enlightenment.
So naturally I took great interest in these concepts. I’ve covered some of the biggest here, and hope to cover some of the others with the help of my friends and fellow bloggers in the future. One of the biggest would be the ego, the exaggerated sense of “I”. Another would the duality of good and bad. How about cause and effect, or as some call it, Karma? Lastly - the concept of time.
I have previously tried to point towards the true nature of time, but I limited that post because I don’t have a direct perception of time - or the Now as it’s frequently called. All I had was book knowledge and I would have felt like a fraud. And yet I still desperately wanted to include a post on it for my dear readers.
So I have a special treat for you - someone who does have a direct perception of time. A dear friend and mentor, Kenton Whitman of Zen-Inspired Self Development, has kindly agreed to help me with a guest post, and I feel very honoured to present it below. Thanks Kenton, you’re a superstar! Love the humour too.
The Nature of Time
When my good friend Albert asked me to write a guest post, I was quite honored. I also knew I was in trouble, because my own readers are used to reading things which make no sense, while Albert is always quite coherent in his writings. So I had to concentrate on writing something sensible.
Then, when he told me what he would like me to write about, I really knew I was in trouble, because he thought it might be nice if I wrote about something simple, like the true nature of time. Yes. Time.
Now, when you’re in the business of writing about non-dualism, you have to know the answer to any question, or you lose your status as Great All-Realized Awakened One. Can you imagine the pressure? Someone hits you broadside with a question like ‘The True Nature of Time’, and you can’t even flinch. You just have to compose a perfectly truthful answer which everyone will understand. And it’s best to keep these things concise, too.
Here it is, then. The true nature of time in 1,400 words or less.
The True Nature of Time
Now, mayhaps I’ll stall a little bit because the whole ‘nature of time’ thing is pretty intimidating. So let’s first ask ‘Why?’ Why would we need to know the true nature of time?
After all, we’re all pretty sure that we know how time works anyway. It ticks along, moving from left to right (right to left in some countries, and top to bottom in yet others). Once a moment is past, it’s gone forever, except in our memories, and all we can do is look ahead to the coming moments and try to make them as pleasant as possible for everyone involved, at least until we all die. This is basically how life works, right?
The problem with this idea is that it’s just an idea. It has absolutely nothing to do with the way time actually works. It’s called Linear Time, and it’s a fairly recent invention in the human story. It’s also a completely optional method of doing things. And the funny thing about linear time is that it is probably the best tool you can possibly use if you want to completely mess up your life.
You see, linear time is one of the foundation-blocks of our current world view. If we truly examine the true nature of time, our current world view will have no choice but to collapse, and what we’ll be left with is pure enlightenment.
The Problems of Linear Time
Just like a yolk goes with an egg and brightness goes with the sun, linear time has a whole host of ideas which go with it. If you decide to adopt a belief in linear time, you automatically adopt the idea of a Self, the idea of Death, ideas of Cause/Effect, and the idea of Meaning. In fact, linear time creates all the great questions of humanity, such as “Why are we here?”, “What is the meaning of it all?”, and “Why aren’t more people sending Kenton packages of Amedei Chocolate?”.
Linear time also creates all the ‘negative feelings’ we associate with human nature. Boredom, anxiety, stress, frustration, fear of death, loneliness, hostility, and insecurity are all brought to life by linear time.
The startling truth is that we are all voluntarily engaged in a belief in linear time, and this belief is probably the most destructive and conflict-generating belief we can have!
It operates simply. Linear time imposes a duration on all things, and thus we feel things slipping away from us. Under this illusion, we find ourselves adopting a grasping, clinging approach to life, where we try to haul in as much good stuff and repel as much bad stuff as we possibly can. To do this, we step all over other people, battle with our own morals and ideas about life, and generally muck up a perfectly good thing. And then, in the end, we die.
Most of the time we try not to think of this. It’s pretty depressing to realize that no matter what we do, we just die in the end. Even if we help others, they’re just going to die too. The result is that many of us adopt beliefs which seem to put a happy ending to the story, such as the belief in an eternal heaven awaiting us after death, or a belief in reincarnation. But when we examine these beliefs, they also suffer from linear time’s effects. No matter how cool heaven is, it’s probably going to get boring after 17 ½ billion years. And reincarnation begs the question of an ‘end-point’, where we finally discover nirvana or unity with the All.
What we’re craving isn’t some special prize at the end of linear time. What we’re craving is the end of linear time itself. Timelessness. Timelessness is the simple truth of time that we’ve all forgotten. We’ve forgotten it because we became fervent believers in linear time.
The True Nature of Time
The simple fact is that there is no such thing as future or past. There is only the present. ‘Past’ is a present idea in your head. We call it a ‘memory’, and imagine that it references a real event in the ‘past’. But the truth is that it’s just a present thought in your head.
The same for future. We call our present thoughts of the future ‘dreams’ or ‘plans’, and feel sure that there is a real, live future drawing ever closer. But our dreams and plans are nothing more than present thoughts about present thoughts.
Indeed, you will never, ever, no-matter-what, experience anything outside of the present. Even if you step into a time machine and travel twenty years into the ‘future’, when will that future ‘be’ for you? It will be your present.
We can’t escape from the present. We’re there all the time, and no matter what we do or think, we’re stuck. If we’d stop a moment and take a look at the situation, it would actually be pretty awesome. But instead, we spend all our present time believing in future and past, and that makes our present into a crazy mess.
Timelessness
If we re-discover timelessness, everything changes. We don’t lose anything – we retain our motivation, our ability to make plans, our ability to dream and remember and accomplish things. What changes is our ability to believe that past and future are real, and thus it’s impossible for us to experience anxiety, stress, or frustration – feelings which are generated only by our belief in linear time.
We all had this sense of timelessness when we were very young, but lost it as we adopted our belief in linear time. Many people have re-discovered timelessness, and found that life is just as amazing as it was when the world was still magical and marvelous. They’ve discovered that all of the problems of adulthood – all the issues that we spend our entire lives trying to resolve – aren’t real, solid problems. They are problems we are constantly creating out of our basic beliefs regarding how the world works. In short, when we re-discover timelessness, we find the meaning of life. And the meaning of life exists in the timeless ‘now’ that most of us are so busy ignoring.
We’re all free to believe in linear time and everything that it entails. We’re free to spend our lives trying to resolve the problems that linear time creates for us. We’re also free to re-discover timelessness.
Finding Timelessness
We can’t force ourselves to experience timelessness. It’s something we must re-discover. A great way to do this is to ignore timelessness completely, and instead focus on linear time. The fact is that linear time is a pretty flimsy construction, and if we take the time to examine it fully, it will fall apart on its own.
To examine it, we just have to look at our ideas about time. Notice how your ideas translate into feelings, so that you have an actual sensation of time passing by you. This sensation, more than anything else, is what really convinces us of linear time.
How long is the present moment? Where is the past? When will the future arrive? What actual separation divides a cause and an effect? What can you find in your mind or in the world around you that exists outside of the present moment? If you know that you won’t lose your ability to ‘remember’ or ‘plan’, what is the use of the ideas of past and future? What does a belief in past and future do for you? How does it effect how you live?
It’s these sorts of questions which can lead us to truth – not by seeking truth directly, but by taking a good look at the veils we’ve set up between ourselves and truth.
If we see through the veils, truth will be waiting, plain and evident, right before us. Right where it’s been all along.
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23 Comments, Comment or Ping
Shantanu
Re: Timelessness, Very interesting thought! I also like the one about never seeing the world the way it truely is. I used to say this about people, how we are different to different people. That we don’t know a person, we only know the mask that person puts on when communicating with us, and that a person uses different masks with different people.
Sep 25th, 2007
Linda
Yeah. Timeliness is very important for news writing. There are many elements of a news. And timeliness is one of them. Yesterday news is the history. Today’s news only fulfill timeliness requirement. But future? I wonder if future is included in timeliness..
Sep 25th, 2007
Albert
Hi Shantanu - yes, it’s kinda interesting how we never truly see the world as it is, or people as they are. All we see are our preconceptions. And glad you liked timelessness - it’s amazing as well. There are no problems, ever, in the Now.
Hi Linda - thanks for stopping by!
Sep 25th, 2007
sof theo
Great choice of guest poster, Albert! I’m an avid reader of Kenton’s writings. He’s probably one of very few people who can write about this topic well and effectively.
“There are no problems, ever, in the Now.” Hmmm, I wonder then how you would describe the misery of oppressed people in other parts of the world? Children dying of hunger and diseases every day when there are otherwise enough resources in the world for everyone. Would you not consider these as problems happening in the Now? Just curious what you think, Albert.
Sep 26th, 2007
Albert
Yea I’m a big fan of Kenton as well!
Hmm good question. Given that I don’t have the direct perception of time that Kenton does, I can only speak from my limited experience. Disease would probably be a problem only if you look at it as the story - “Oh my God, I’ve got AIDS, I’m gonna die in a year, and I’m only 30 years old and what about my kids?” But if you narrow it down to the NOW - what do you have? You’re still alive, you’re still functioning. Physical discomfort, maybe. Now obviously some of that would be very painful, but a lot more manageable without the story (which is based on time).
I remember a car accident I had last year that left me in the emergency unit. The doctors suspected I had a punctured something in my body, and they were running a lot of tests - if they were right they’d need to operate immediately or I’d die. Now the truth was I had internal bruising and bleeding but nothing life threatening. As I lay in the hospital watching them stick me with needles - how much of the suffering was caused by not being in the NOW? The story - “I’m going to die! It’s a punctured liver!” - that’s created by not being in the NOW. What is happening in the now? Me lying in bed, a dull pain in stomach, an IV drip in my hand. And that’s not a problem. Physical pain, yes, but that’s not a problem.
Same thing with oppression. “Oh my God, this guy will shoot me if I don’t give him this much money by next month.” But if you narrow it down to the NOW - take away the story and it’s much more manageable.
Of course, I’m not making light of the suffering that they go through - I have never been through that kind of pain and I wonder if I can think this way if I’m actually the one being oppressed and shot at and starved. So I don’t really know.
Sep 26th, 2007
Harsh Vora
Dear Albert,
Insightful article. A really nice one.
Thanks
Sep 26th, 2007
Albert
Hey Harsh, thanks - I’ll pass on the compliments to Kenton. Good to see you around again.
Sep 26th, 2007
John
I totally agree, the ego is very attached to the concept of time. It provides it with a ‘purpose’.
One of the best articles I’ve read today. Thanks for getting such an awesome guest poster and providing such poignant content without all the fluff.
Sep 26th, 2007
Albert
Thanks John, I’ll pass on the compliments to Kenton - he’s really a fantastic writer and friend and deserves it.
Sep 27th, 2007
Greg
Fascinating article on the fallacy that time really exists. Independently from reading this article, I have come to implicitly understand that there is no other “time” than the now and that has totally changed the way I view everything in my world. It is such an easy concept to embrace but so very difficult to implement in our contemporary society. Furthermore, trying to get others to see this is a challenge. What has been so liberating about this concept is the fact that it allows a person to truly open up to the true nature of the universe and see that there is no birth….no death….only existence NOW that has always been and always will be!!! Thanks for providing yet another spin on what is REAL…not what we perceive to be real!!
Sep 29th, 2007
Albert
Hey Greg, the true nature of time is really interesting, isn’t it? Do you have any stories to share about how it has changed your view? I’d be really interested in hearing it. Thanks for the comment.
Sep 29th, 2007
Greg
Albert:
Thanks for the response. In answer to your request, what comes to mind is watching anything else in nature operate……the animals around us….the plants we nourish and grow….the weather…..the seasons….all operate in a place of now! You look at how a cat conducts its day and you see clearly the reality of timelessness. Not only does the cat exists with little or no stress, it communicates an acceptance of its surroundings because that is what is! Even if stress enters the cat’s universe…it is transitory and immediately forgotten once the offending activity is passed. What has really helped me to embrace this understanding is watching my younger brother engage life over his “time” on this planet. Born with Down’s syndrome back in 1958, my brother has had a series of life experiences that would be considered “tragic’ in conventional wisdom. I, for years, felt sorry for my brother because of his perceived low state of rational functioning and how it deprived him of experiencing life as we know it. However, I have radically altered that perspective over the past few years. In observing his existence over that time I have come to understand that he lives in a perpetual state of peace and contentment because all he perceives is the “Now” of his existence. I have actually come to envy his state of being. He is always happy….always in a state of loving energy that emanates to all who come in contact with him. When he does experience discomforting states of being they exist in the moment of time and disappear as soon as the next moment arrives!!! What a wonderful way to exist. I now know why he chose to come into this world the way he did. It was to experience life in a state of total acceptance and bliss for what is happening now! Only by not being concerned or bothered by the constraints of “time” has he been able to do so and what a great lesson it has been for me.
Let me know your thoughts on this, Albert. I look forward to hearing from you.
Greg
Oct 2nd, 2007
Albert
Greg, that sounds absolutely wonderful. Your brother sounds like a Zen master. I’ve been doing as Kenton said, and “fresh” experiences / stress really does just fly past me now without leaving a mark. I think that we have to draw a fine line between getting involved in time, and planning for the future. Like, for example, I’m planning a trip overseas, and yes I have to go into the future for that. But if I start fantasising and so on, I snap out of the Now.
It’s a hard habit to break, which is why I guess a simple life / retreat might be the best idea? I’m not too sure on this. But your brother is really quite an inspiration.
Oct 3rd, 2007
Mike S
Great Stuff Guys!
I partially disagree that “when we re-discover timelessness, we find the meaning of life.” When we “come upon” timelessness, we get a “taste” of the “meaning of life,” (just not the full course)because we come upon it through time itself. As I see it, to be completely timeless is to be GONE! This is because the reality we believe as “real” is IN time. In other words, without time there could be NO REALITY whatsoever. Because without “time” there could be no mind-body, since mind-body demands space-time for which to experience an “existence.”
Therefore to be “timeless” is, in a sense, to be “dead” or more precisely, GONE!
Unfortunately, that is a frightening prospect to our current time-bound “identity” and we quickly jump back from it and go “whew, almost lost myself for a moment.” (thus, there are millions in the world today who “taste” the timeless, but fear brings ‘em on back to the comfort zone)
To BE “timeless” in perpetuity is, in essence, to not exist
I like when Kenton writes, “If we truly examine the true nature of time, our current world view will have no choice but to collapse, and what we’ll be left with is pure enlightenment.”
Essentially this “collapse” is what we desire and fear and it is that “tension” between desire and fear of non-existence that “allows” us to “exist.” We sense it is better than “here,” but since we don’t “know” it is better, we come back to what we know.
My belief is that the “enlightened masters” frequently “taste” timelessness,(more frequently then the rest of us) but are not timeless in perpetuity. simply because to be without time is NOT TO BE…at all.
LOVE THIS STUFF!!!
Thanks, Mike
Nov 10th, 2007
Albert
Heya Mike - good to see you poking around the archives
. Comments taken on board, but unfortunately it’s all a bit too deep for me (hence I got Kenton to write it) and so I can’t really give a meaningful response, sorry.
Nov 10th, 2007
Mike S
Albert,
That’s OK, because I’m not too sure I have any idea what I’m talking about! LOL
I guess that’s just “the nature of the beast.”
Thanks for having a great site!
Nov 10th, 2007
Ashley
Thankyou for the fabulous information .. you are spot on when it comes to the true nature of the mind and suffering.
Nov 11th, 2007
Albert
Thank you Ashley, I’ll pass the compliments on to Kenton
Nov 12th, 2007
Jerome
Interesting article but I’ve also got problems with the “there are no problems ever in the Now”. Let’s imagine you’re getting tortured by somebody, do you really have no problems at that time? Ok, you can just accept the situation (can’t do anything else anyway) but does that really translate in ‘no problems’ … ?
Hm.
Nov 17th, 2007
Albert
Hi mate, I totally understand your concerns…I can’t really explain it, nor do I really understand it
But Kenton’s addressed this very issue here -
http://kentonwhitman.com/blog/.....for-peace/
And I’ve also made a feeble attempt - although not as relevant to this:
http://www.urbanmonk.net/154/w.....ompassion/
Nov 17th, 2007
Jeevan
Excellent post. Seems that we cannot conceive timelessness because conceiving itself uses time. That is, thoughts have duration, so using thoughts, it is impossible to transcend time and see timelessness. However, awareness of thoughts must be occurring from timelessness. This timelessness cannot be grasped because as soon as an attempt is made, thoughts take over and we are in time.
Not to worry because in reality, our true nature is timeless. To see the world (all objects including our body, thoughts, feelings etc) are in time, the seer (not an object) has to be timeless. Analogy would be standing on the shores and watching the river of time. If you (real subject) also flow with time, then you would not know that there is time so you must be outside time.
Sorry, I cannot explain this well because it is from second hand knowledge, but something that fascinates me. I may work with Albert to post some of my limited understanding.
Feb 12th, 2008
Albert
Very nice stuff Jeevan, I don’t know much about Time and it’s fascinating to me, so I’m always happy to read other people’s perspectives on this. Looking forward to it.
Feb 12th, 2008
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